Yamizuma
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You are, without realizing it, agreeing with me. I don't know what some of you people think but getting in shape is not easy for anyone. It's hard to do for ANYONE. But the truth remains that 99 percent of obesity is caused by over eating and under exercising. They're are a million stories of people who used to make the same excuses and eventually overcame their own restrictions. The stone cold fact is that people can achieve what they want to...
In regards to you saying I am making " assumptions" about people... well... so do you! The difference is that I am "assuming" that people can succeed at anything they put their mind to. While you are "assuming" that people are a bunch of victims who cannot achieve certain things. Who is being nicer here? Someone who says "indf you want to be healthy then you can do it" or someone who says "you are born fat and this will never chance regardless of how hard you try"?
I have seen people with all kinds of ailments overcome. I have also heard every excuse known to man from people who prefer to play the helpless victim card. Because after all... making changes is NEVER easy.
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I didn't put words in your mouth. I would thank you not to put words in mine by putting quotation marks on things I didn't say. Please provide me with the source of your stone cold facts? 99 per cent? I am not consciously or subconsciously agreeing with you. Respectfully, I disagree with you. I never used the word victim, and I don't see people or define people or dogs with medical issues as such. It is simply their reality, and while being obese is not good it is not a choice or a lack of character for far more living creatures than the uncited statistic you quote. It is not an excuse, nor something willpower alone can always conquer. My sister can't just put her mind to it, and stop having seizures and get out of the wheelchair, nor eat what is healthy for others without having a grand mal, Willpower alone does not cure mental illness. My neighbour could stop the steroids that make her fat, but loose the ability to hug her nine year old son. Type one diabetics stop taking insulin, and can die. All the willpower in the world apparently doesn't make the Islets of Langerhan in their pancreas come back to life. Are you suggesting that my friend just needs to work her deformed and genetically disabled pet harder and believe it won't be fat that this will work? That's ridiculous. You tell me you are assuming that people can succeed at anything they put their mind to, and I am telling you that however much I might wish that were true, your assumptions and other people's reality do not mesh. Others have a different reality. My path is not your path. I don't want or need to be you. Please respect that others don't wan't can't have or will never be your ideal for myriad reasons, and be grateful you don't have to walk in their shoes. Do not assume that everyone you see that doesn't match your vision of health is lazy and lacking in willpower. You don't know them. You don't know their struggles. And don't assume they are victims, nor say I said they were. We all have our own journey. Mine is not yours. Yours is not mine. How about I refrain from assuming nonsense things about you, and you refrain from assuming nonsense things?
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