I'm sorry he's such a prick, no fun to deal with for you or anyone. But you are a smart man. I was also told how horrible my dad was and I feel robbed of knowing him as a teenager. I never spoke an ill word of my oldest two kids' dad. They themselves came to their conclusions after only 2 meetings with him in their teens.
Best way. My ex's kids dad was a prat with us but good with the kids.
As an outsider I think I have a unique position of being able to see when mum is wrong and dad is right. It's not an enviable position trust me.
But hey if the bairns are happy that's the main thing. Mum can hate him and I can be....... indifferent...for the main part but as long as they are young enough I think they should think daddy is awesome. (I'm always getting told how daddy can do everything I can do better than me and I always just say "well I'll have to practise hard and get better then")
But in a lighter note.
Caitlin is doing well. She still has her bad days but every day her hair grows longer and her cheek gets cheekier.
She's now adamant that she NEEDS a baby or a puppy in her life.
That's going to take some explaining haha.
Though i do keep winding her up with pictures of puppies.
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