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Dear past and future puppy owners...

BlackShadowCaneCorso

Super Moderator
Staff member
This was something that was posted on a Cane Corso Facebook page. I am not certain of the author but think represents how breeders think.

This about covers the breeder/buyer aspect:

" Dear past and future puppy owners,
I loved them first. I thought of you years before you even realized. I planned for and cared about your baby long before you started thinking of adding to your family. I worried about your future with that puppy before you knew there would be one.
There were hours upon hours spent researching lines for the parents of your puppies. Going over breeder after breeder, choosing not only my pet but looking for a dog that will make you your pet. Worrying if you'd be happy, if I had chosen correctly and your puppy would grow up healthy and happy. Going over puppy after puppy with fellow breeders, running over my program with as many knowledgeable breeders as I can, determined to not miss anything. Tracing lines back as far as I could, learning the ins and outs not only for my knowledge but so that I was informed, prepared to go over every detail with you, to answer the questions that sometimes you don't even ask.
Then there's years of watching your puppies parents grow. Loving them and enjoying them as part of my family. Taking them every where I can, training them, socializing them, watching how they fill out. Asking myself I had made the right choice in both of them. Scrutinizing their confirmation, how they move, and their temperament. There was the stress of health testing. Praying not only that my babies were healthy but that they had the genes to make your baby healthy.
Finally came the time to put your puppies parents together. For the next 63 days I worried, I obsessed, I grew excited. I watched your puppies mom like a hawk. Making sure my baby was ok, monitoring her diet better than I do my own. Concerned that she was getting enough of the right nutrients and that your growing baby was getting the best start possible. I spent hours on the couch, floor, and dog bed with her watching her tummy grow and anxiously waiting. As your baby and mine grew I laid my hands on her tummy and felt the first movements of your puppy. As the time grew close I spent most nights in the nursery with her. Making sure she didn't go into labor without me knowing, in case something went wrong and one of our babies needed help. When labor started my whole life stopped. I spent every second with her. Your baby was born into my hands and I held my breath as I cleaned them up, watching for movement and breathing, cleaning them up, checking them over, and wondering if you'd love them as much as I already did. I helped your babies brother when mom got tired and he was stuck. I cried when your babies sister didn't make it.
For the first 8 weeks most of my life was filled with your baby. Watching them grow and making sure I was doing everything possible to make sure they started their lives the right way. Making sure each one was getting enough to eat, enough socialization time, that they were dewormed and given their shots. I was the first person they saw when they opened their eyes. I spent my weeks playing with them and keeping them safe.
I searched for you and interviewed you. As you spoke I tried to read your character. Would you love them as much as I do? Would you bring them in as part of your family? Would you care for this tiny life that I brought into this world that I am responsible for? Some of you were turned away but some of you were welcomed into our family. The day you took your baby home was harder than I'd ever let on. I was excited for you but I was also terrified. Had I chosen correctly? Were you who you seemed to be?
My love and worry didn't end there. I thought about your baby regularly, saddened when I didn't get updates, extatic when I did. I hoped you were caring for your baby the way I care for mine. I answered your questions happily and answered them again just as happily to your babies siblings new parents. When your puppies sister ate a couch I stayed up that night she was at the vets, waiting to hear that she was ok. When their brothers parents decided he no longer fit in their life I welcomed him home, sorry that I had chosen wrong for him and promised him it wouldn't happen again.
I loved your baby first and I will never stop."
 

PrinceLorde13

Well-Known Member
Sweet, and it would be a much better world if all or even most breeders actually felt this way. For some reason the last line was a bit creepy to me, but that's just me lol
 

zardac

Well-Known Member


"I loved your baby first and I will never stop"


This does make you sorta wonder if a restraining order would make them stop.
 

Distaff

Active Member
You guys must watch too many creepy movies.
I didn't take it that way at all.

I could never be a dog breeder; just wouldn't trust anyone. I've sold a few goats and sheep, and even that is hard.
 

QY10

Well-Known Member
I didn't think it was creepy either. I think it's beautiful and wish ALL breeders thought that way. It seems like a lot of breeders are just looking to make money.

When I was looking for who I wanted to get my next puppy from, I sifted through many different breeders and settled on one who truly cares about her dogs. They are her family and are kept as family (as opposed to outdoor, chain link kennels) and when her dogs age, she does not rehome them. They stay with her and live out their senior years. When I expressed interest in one of her dogs, we spoke almost daily and I added her as a friend on FB so that she could see first-hand how my current dogs live and the type of life I provide for them. We spent months getting to know each other and continue to do so.
 

AussieGirl

Well-Known Member
my dog is now nearly 11 months old and i have his breeder on Facebook and we still talk once a week or so. even if it is just him commenting on one of my angus photo's or me sending him a funny story about something Angus did. i am glad a found a breeder who continued to care about Angus's life and i am glad i can continue to show him that he found the right home for this handsome boy :D
 

Bailey's Mom

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The best gift I ever received was my dog Bailey. She was the last...the runt...THE BEST. She was not as engaging as Lucky, who had first won my husband's heart, but was adopted by someone else. She was not as pretty as Pita with her perfectly mirrored brindle, but she was literally the pick of the litter. Out of 15 puppies, 13 survived initially...that number is to the credit of the man and woman who cared for them. Oh, you couldn't call them breeders...well, maybe BYB...but they loved each and every puppy and agonized over letting any of them go. We kept in touch for a while and I have sent pictures, but I'll be truthful, fear gripped my heart when he called to tell me Pita had died. I was afraid he wanted Bailey back and I wouldn't have given her up. She is the light of our lives...our forever dog.

I know how Mary must feel, I would be terribly torn if Bailey had puppies and I had to let them go. I'd need polygraphs and private investigators and all sorts of guarantees. They would forever be my grand-puppies. I could never be a breeder, no matter how much I loved the breed...too attached...too emotional, but I thank God that people like Mary exist and take the time, the effort, the investment in their lives to breed the very best CC's that can be bred. They are an amazing breed, I suspect it takes amazingly committed people to breed them, and I'm glad to know that Mary's family are cautious and anxious about the placements and that no pup is discarded, but can always come HOME.