Oh My!! This sounds all too familiar. About a month ago I took my Boxer, Crosby, in for 2 swollen glands under his jaw. It too turned out to be lymphoma. He is 12 or 13 years old, so we are not putting him through chemo at his age. He is doing ok. Some days are better than others. He also has hemangiosarcoma. PM me if you want to talk/vent. We are now taking 2 types of meds and treating him like royalty. We are constantly on gaurd for changes. We too, will NOT prolong any suffering.
My heart is breaking for y'all! Prayers being said on your behalf.