Annoying house mate

[Jakesmum]

I'm glad to hear that you've dealt with the situation so far. I will tell you from my recent experience with having a friend stay with us, we told him his girlfriend wasn't welcome after they had a fight and the cops were called to our house only to find her in our house a couple weeks later, we again laid down the law and hadn't seen her for months. The this week they had a fight so he went to a sleezy pub and got drunk and brought home some drunk whore. He didn't think we were home and when he saw we were he called a taxi and they left. We haven't seen him since then and changed the locks yesterday, told him to let us know when he wants to come get his stuff. I have to wonder how many times he's brought some floozy home when we weren't there! He may not have been family but we treated him like family and he was someone my husband has known for over 20 years. I really hope it works out for you, I'm happy to hear you have nanny cams and can make sure she is respecting your home!

 

[swanguy7]

I'm glad to hear that you've dealt with the situation so far. I will tell you from my recent experience with having a friend stay with us, we told him his girlfriend wasn't welcome after they had a fight and the cops were called to our house only to find her in our house a couple weeks later, we again laid down the law and hadn't seen her for months. The this week they had a fight so he went to a sleezy pub and got drunk and brought home some drunk whore. He didn't think we were home and when he saw we were he called a taxi and they left. We haven't seen him since then and changed the locks yesterday, told him to let us know when he wants to come get his stuff. I have to wonder how many times he's brought some floozy home when we weren't there! He may not have been family but we treated him like family and he was someone my husband has known for over 20 years. I really hope it works out for you, I'm happy to hear you have nanny cams and can make sure she is respecting your home!

Wow cant believe he would just take whores to your home when he is not welcome there ! What an ass he must be . Good idea changing locks .

 

[skibulls]

No... Please... Put MY dog outside once more. OR... Tell ME... How you are gonna correct him... In MY HOUSE...

Don't worry.. I'll wait.

 

[QY10]

LOL Skibulls, I like the way you think!


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[Jakesmum]

LOL. that's the best response Ive seen yet!

 

[Bailey's Mom]

that is one unlucky young woman - broken family and abusive boyfriend. Still, I wouldn't trust her unless they break up (for real). She may be under his influence and she may as well consider that she can't be with the love of her life (!!) because of you or worse, because of your poor puppy -it's so easy to hurt a helpless puppy And it's so much easier to prevent than manage any damage they both can do.

Guilt - for things you haven't done (family break-up) will weaken your resolve. If you give way one bit, cousin and friend with make your life hell. You can't fix her life, only she can affect her outcome by keeping the rules, respecting your home OR thinking she can play you. It's her call, AND her choice is not your fault. DON'T Assume Responsibility that Isn't Yours. Somethings are black and white. Threats to your home and pet aren't in shades of gray...they are in absolutes. Stand Your Ground.

So glad you've taken the steps you have to protect yourself and your family. Good Luck.

 

[AussieGirl]

I feel good about the choice I made. She hasn't broken the rules yet and I have to trust her not to until I have reason for the trust to be broken which I hope will not happen

 

[skibulls]

Lol, I would never pull one of my firearms out on someone to intimidate them.. But I can't promise I wouldn't put myself in a position to be cleaning and oiling them on the dinning room table when I'm expecting them home hahaha

Glad all is working for YA now darling, that's great news.

 

[swanguy7]

I feel good about the choice I made. She hasn't broken the rules yet and I have to trust her not to until I have reason for the trust to be broken which I hope will not happen

You sound like a nice person to others that's awesome but I can see you have boundaries when it comes to your pack that's even more awesome. And again you handled it perfect from every angle . Your cousin now has the chance to respect your boundaries really hope she does continue doing this

 

[AussieGirl]

In case anyone is still interested my cousin and her boyfriend broke up over the weekend so this problem has now been moved into the solved category

 

[QY10]

That's awesome news!

 

[TWW]

Great news

 

[swanguy7]

Yep good news

 

[musicdeb]

Great news!