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What is it like to live with a bullmastiff?

Bridget01

Member
I am new to this forum, but need information. My husband and I have always admired the bullmastiff and think of getting one at some point. We are a multi-dog household, middle aged, our children grown and out of the house. We have a large, male senior lab, who is primarily my husband's dog, although our dogs are always "family" dogs. Looking forward, when our beloved lab is gone, we may be ready for another breed.

So, I am asking what it is like to live with a bullmastiff? How protective? Do they tend to play with other dogs, or at least how tolerant are they? What activities do they enjoy? Do they like to swim? What common problems come up? How are they normally with children? How much exercise do they need? Are they independent, big ole lap dogs, clowns, etc.?? Do they tend to be easy to train?

I realize I am asking a lot, but I want to get a mental picture of what it is like to live with one of these wonderful dogs. I do realize that all dogs are individuals, so what someone tells me won't be true of every single bullmastiff, but just trying to get a general idea. Thank you very much.
 

DennasMom

Well-Known Member
I'd say going from a lab to a bullmastiff will be like going from disneyland to the day-spa. Both are fun and rewarding, but on different levels. :)

Our last dog was a Dane/Lab mix, he was very much a "tell-me-what-to-do" labby dog who would learn ANY trick you wanted him to, just because he wanted to see you smile. He would go get the paper from the driveway, or run upstairs to get my slippers, any time I asked. Our first dog (before the Dane/lab) was an independent rott/GSD/pryn mix, who was more guardian than trickster, so going to a lab personality was VERY different for us. We loved it, though. The Dane/Lab never scared anyone, even tho he was 100lbs of wiggle - where our 200lb rottie mix scared most people just by walking into the room. It was nice not to have to worry about scaring people (even if it was unfounded).

Denna, our EM, could care less about tricks, so we're back to a more guardian companion versus 'working' dog. She'd rather just curl up with you for a nap on the couch, or go for a nice walk around the 'hood. As for getting the paper or slippers? She just doesn't see the point. ;)

We're also back to having an 'intimidating' dog... she's "only" 150lbs, but as a brindle, she has that scary "big pit" look about her which some people can't see past (similar to 'black dog syndrome'). If they look past the stripes and see the happy look in her eyes, they're normally won over to her side, though, quickly. I think the fawn coloring is seen as a more friendly dog... just going by public perception (again, unfounded).

I don't have real BM experience, but I'm sure some others will chime in here and help fill in the gaps!
 

LizB

Well-Known Member
Bullmastiffs are protective. They can play with other dogs and often do, but they MUST be socialized from a young age with other well-adjusted and well-socialized dogs. Try to keep them from unstable or poorly trained dogs. They tend to lie around as adults but will do most anything, other than a lot of strenuous exercise or any exercise in the heat - they are not heat tolerant. My BMs all sank like stones in the water but maybe some swim! They are wonderful with children but MUST be trained and socialized from an early age. They do not need much exercise, but they do need some. Some are lap dogs, some are clowns, some are aloof - you never know. They are not easy to train, as a rule, due to their natural general temperament related to the reason they were developed originally.

I have to emphasize training and socialization, and can't really overstate this. In the absence of good leadership and direction they will want to take over and be the boss, and you don't want that from a huge, powerful dog. Even under the best of circumstances they will attempt to take over during the teenage years, and this is where continued training and socialization will benefit everyone. They are bred to sit in the dark and watch and wait, so when a BM is "lying around" and sleeping all the time, they are actually working. They are bred to make their own decisions about when to act, and that means they are independent thinkers, not people-pleasers (in general). If you train them properly and show them what you want from them in terms of acceptable/desirable/unacceptable behaviors then you can let them do what they do, and trust their reactions. None of my BMs ever barked at the door or made a fuss over company, UNLESS the company was not to be trusted, and then my BM was standing bodily between me and the other person, or they'd block the door to prevent entry. They aren't "attack" dogs but you can believe they will protect you. I don't know that they protect PROPERTY, per se, in they'll protect YOU. It is awesome and a great feeling. You don't have to tell them what to do - they already know.

They tend to have food allergies (chicken and corn, commonly) and are EXPENSIVE dogs to own. Everything at the vet costs a lot more due to their size, and they can be prone to health problems, unfortunately. They slobber (some not as bad as others) and this will get slung all over the house. They shed a lot. Their nails are large and thick and it is not a simple thing keeping them short. Get them used to this procedure at a young age. There is a lot of information here about spaying/neutering too that is important as well.

There are a lot of exceptions to what I wrote in the first paragraph. Sometimes male bullmastiffs cannot be in the presence of another male dog of any breed, and sometimes its okay, depending on their training/socialization/temperament. These are not dogs that I would recommend to anyone just wanting an all around easy-going family dog. This is a dog that could be a danger in the wrong hands or just raised without leadership. Poor breeding can create dogs with horrible temperament that can't be corrected with training, so look for a reputable breeder - I could write 700 paragraphs about that, lol, so search here for info about signs of a reputable breeder.

Good luck in your search, and there is a ton of great information here. Browse through the forum, including health/nutrition and training/behavior to get an idea of what kinds of things you might expect. I would have 12 of them if I could. Today. :rolleyes:

EDIT: Ditto to Denna's Mom's comment about the reaction of those around you. Your family, friends and neighbors may be quite afraid of your dog, and you will for sure get a strong reaction out in public. In my dogs' cases, other dogs often reacted strongly to my dog, with their large and imposing presence, with a huge head and dark face. It is not anything like having a large dog of another breed that is not as tough looking.
 

Jakesmum

Well-Known Member
After getting through the puppy phase and all the training and socialization our day is usually: get up - eat breakfast - out for morning potty - nap - chew a bone - nap - think about going potty - look out the window decide no - nap - go for a walk - potty on walk - nap - supper time - nap - out for night time potty - cookie - bed for the night. Seriously he has been the easiest dog and all he wants is to be with his family and please us, I have seen him be protective in situations that he needs to be and wouldn't want to be on the receiving end of his intimidation, but he has never harmed a soul, he feeds off us and how we react to different people, but he is truly a gentle giant and a very special dog.
 

Bridget01

Member
Thanks for the posts! I am going to discuss aspects of the BM with my husband and I am taking all the information I can get very seriously. We volunteer at a shelter and I do believe that a very high percentage of the purebred dogs we see come in are because folks didn't do their homework before deciding on a breed. If we did decide to get one, it would primarily be my husband's dog most likely, but I would be very involved too and need to be able to control the dog, so would be participating in training and such. Thanks.
 

LizB

Well-Known Member
Thanks for the posts! ..... I do believe that a very high percentage of the purebred dogs we see come in are because folks didn't do their homework before deciding on a breed. ...

Too, too true!! Also, people who get a dog "for the kids" or otherwise feel they ought to have a dog as a family pet, but have no idea what it means to keep a dog. Reality sets in quickly!
 

fran-and

Member
We are onto our third Mastiff and the comments above pretty much sum up the breed in my opinion. With respect to our BM, our girl has just turned 3 and even though very intimating to others, is just a big ball of slobber and love once you/your friends get to know her. Very loyal & protective with the males seeming to be more protective of their property/home while the females more protective of their owners - from my experience. Not a lot of strenuous exercise, but regular exercise is required and plenty of socialisation during those formative months. And yes, food and vet bills are more expensive but they are definitely worth it for what you get back from this breed. Would definitely recommend Mastiff - but also ensure you source a reputable breeder.
 

Calvin280

Member
We have had all different breeds, Danes , shitzu, poodles, yorkies, lol and now added our Bull Mastiff. We did research ,but you can read all you want allot is in their traits, but allot is also with the individual dog and the training. We got lucky Calvin isn't a big drooler:)) the shedding stinks though..I use the furminator which sort of helps, I also limit his access to the entire house. We have large property and recently installed a wireless fencing system which he learned within 4 days who hoo. He is very athletic outside. He loves the family and usually is laying under my feet. The one thing that is starting to become a challenge is i have three younger teenage kids. We are no longer able to rough house with each other as Calvin goes into this weird protective mode. i have read about it ,but now experiencing it is a different story. You absolutely with out any doubt must train your bullmastiff that you are dominant one and he must respect you. It's difficult with younger teens and they are somewhat unpredictable as well. My son can't get thru his mind that he is not allowed to play rough with Calvin as he will loose without a doubt being 70 lbs vs Calvin at 80 lbs. that part is frustrating for me. Recently it was my sons bday and after his present he was excited and jumped in my arms with joy..Calvin didn't like that and he started to jump on my son and lightly mouth him which gets everyone else upset and I belive makes Calvin do it even more. I now worry much more about every situation that involves calvin because I really know what he could be capable of. He was just protecting me ,but with his own family..ughh. We are planing a vacation I have a pet sitter that stays at the house I'm worried about Calvin and what he might do since I am so on top of all situations and I won't be here. For me potty training was easy although I have caught him marking a couple times. He is excellent with our male 6lb yorkie ,but I keep everything again supervised. He definately is food driven so training works well with treats. Hope that gives some insight to our experience so far Calvin will be 1 yr on feb 20th.
 

Brinsdad

Well-Known Member
I have had 3 BM and have found with as much socialising as you can do with people and dogs and everything else for that matter then a better dog will be hard to find , all mine have been loving and jentle to people who come through the door but if they triad to get over back fence then the BM would let the know diff lol . All of mine have been great with the kids and tend to be very lazy and layed back , but that's also like me lol so maybe it rubs off somewhat , if u want a dog to play ball all day and chase frisbee then look for a diff breed but if u want a dog who is going to lay next to you ( they seem to love contact ) while you sip a drink and read a book then bingo you have your perfect dog lol
They can go on long walks and are fast powerful dogs but there answer would be let the collie dog do it ;-)


No love like a bully love
 

masteneo

Well-Known Member
Some seriously spot on breed description. better than Wikipedia. I am not , honestly , familiar with a giant breed that swims. anyone else. found out first hand my lawn troll sinks like lead.
 

vadersmom

Well-Known Member
We are on our 4th bully. Have had them for over 20 years. THIS little girl now is totally different in every way-active, athletic, and a social butterfly. Hasn't had to guard much at all. Loves all dogs but plays too rouhg to actually be let loose with dogs other than solidly built ones. Our others were the typical couch potatoes and were exhausted for the day after a short walk. This girl loves to get in the water(she sinks too but loves to fetch sticks in shallow water) and is much more high maintence activty wise ie needs her outlet, or else!
As like others have said-a firm hand is necessary, consistancy is key, socialization and training-she has needed to go to 3 times the classes our others went to just for the structure and the stimulation. She loves to be told what to do and needs guidance. Our others "got it" quickly and fell into a great little routine. She is more stubborn, fast as lightening but crazy sweet.
We love our bullies-this may be our last as we are getting a bit older now and it can be a challenge hauling her butt in and out of the car:)
 

Islandborn

New Member
Had three.... I wont chose another breed. Our first one was responsible for my wife and I going from a full size bed - to a queen size bed - to now our king. They can be quite the cuddle monsters. Socialize...alot. We just brought them around everywhere we went and raised our kids with them when they were puppies. This breed also caused us to repaint the interior of our house with cleanable paint so we could remove the drool off. But thats part of the fun! hope it all works out well!
 

LizB

Well-Known Member
.... This breed also caused us to repaint the interior of our house with cleanable paint so we could remove the drool off. But thats part of the fun! hope it all works out well!....

Quick Tip: Let drool dry and carefully peel off. Works on many surfaces! :D
 

DennasMom

Well-Known Member
Some seriously spot on breed description. better than Wikipedia. I am not , honestly , familiar with a giant breed that swims. anyone else. found out first hand my lawn troll sinks like lead.

I expected Denna to sink... but she's a FISH.
She LOVES to swim.

We camp along the Columbia river every summer - where's it's about a mile across - and if I didn't keep her on a rope, I think she'd try to swim across. The current is a bit strong, and she'd have to cross lanes of barge traffic and wind-surfers... but she'd give it a go if we let her. She'll swim for over an hour, back and forth after a toy, or just around the humans in their beer-floaties. I have to drag her back to camp to relax or she'd keep going. I put her in a life vest when I think she's getting tired - 'cause she won't stop until she drops (which has yet to happen). :)