I apologize, I didn't really specify that in my post and it DOES give the appearance that I do not intend to ever spay her. She will eventually be spayed but unfortunately she has had health issue after health issue and I am waiting to have her spayed once her health improves(she is scheduled to have all of her baby teeth removed next week and after she has healed she will more than likely need 2-4 of her adult teeth removed and she just recovered from a UTI about 2 months ago). She has had bad reactions to being put under and as of right now we only mildly sedate her for her teeth cleanings. I have been looking for a vet that has experience in altering dogs with anesthetic allergies but haven't had much luck. Right now she is only 2 years old and I would like to have her spayed no later than 4 but it all comes down to the anesthetic issue. I have read that some dogs can develop more of a tolerance to anesthesia as they get older so I am truly hoping that is the case. When I first adopted her from my sister she was only about 5-6 months old, she went in for a teeth cleaning and almost died from the anesthesia. It could have been her size, or the fact that she was still kind of weak from fighting off an infection a month earlier, or they could have screwed up the dosage. I would just hate to risk it until she is in better health and I have a vet more experienced with dogs that have had adverse reactions to anesthetic.
And in regards to our future EM, I suppose I should have rephrased that to "when we have him/her altered". We will eventually as we have no intentions of breeding, but we are debating on whether to do it at 2 years or waiting until 4 or 5. It all depends on if we get a male or female dog.