Thats awesome. I would agree that a grown Fila should not be harsh to it's people. I am not sure that applies to pups myself. It's just a pup. I also agree with swift and "harsh" actions. I grab the neck and shake for sure my self. I play very rough with kona and I can say with certainty that you will hurt your hand before the dog so spanking aint gonna get it. ahahaha But you grab that neck flap and shack while saying no, oh she knows I aint BSing. Dont hurt just lets them know it is no longer a game. Not to say she aint had her share of smacks on the rump, but I promise you, it means nothing to her except play time. Far as going to the back door... Kona goes under the kitchen table. ahahaha. If I pick up a piece of trash and just loo at her, she puts her head down and sulks on her way to the table. Then after the mess is clean, she comes and plays super sweet so daddy aint mad at her. ahahahaha